Is this the fall you stop pushing your needs to the bottom of your forever-long to-do list?
You already know how to take care of everyone else. You could recite their schedules, their preferences, what they need before they ask.
But your own needs? Somehow those keep landing at the bottom of a very long list that never actually ends.
"There's always something else to take care of." You've thought it so many times it doesn't even register as a thought anymore. It's just the way things are.
Here's the thing: you are worthy of the same exquisite care you give everyone else. Not after everything settles down. Not when you've earned it. Now, as you are, with everything on your plate.
It's not your fault you got here. But it is YOUR life. And a better time to take care of yourself isn't coming.
On the other side?
Radiant aliveness. Deep resourcing. Benevolent self-responsibility. Nourishing stewardship.
Welcome to Tend
Tend is my 12-week signature group coaching program for humans who are ready to stop abandoning themselves + start staying BY their own side, for real this time.
We work through it together: getting quiet enough to hear yourself again, understanding what you actually need, and building the self-belief that those needs matter.
During our season together, you'll experiment with new ways of relating to yourself and the people around you, disentangle from the expectations and conditioning that have kept your needs stuck, and build something that's entirely yours: a way of moving through the world that's actually built around you.
Real self-care is responsive, not prescriptive.
It comes through your relationship with yourself, not from someone else's listacle of "10 Ways to Fix Your Burnout." In Tend, we rebuild your relationship with yourself, concretely and without pretending it's simple.
By the time we're done, you will know, in your bones, that you have your own back.
(And not just on bright, shiny days when everything is easy and awesome.)
TEND DETAILS
The next cohort of Tend will take place Spring 2027.
Weekly Q&A calls will be at 12 pm ET on Thursdays.
Your investment:
Tend: $2,100
Everything you need: 12 weeks of group coaching, the full framework, The Ask course and script library, and the December Roost Winter Solstice Ceremony as your completion bonus!
Tend + 1:1: $4,000
Everything in Tend, plus 6 private coaching sessions with me. Limited to 5 spots.
Waitlist perks! Early bird pricing for Tend tuition + everyone who enrolls within the first 48 hours of waitlist doors opening receives a bonus 1:1 session with me.
After Tend, I am feeling more deeply at home in myself than I've ever felt in my entire adult life.
- Carrie
All of my life, I have been told that I am "too needy." I read Mara's book and was blown away by her ability to look unflinchingly at the way society expects women to be EVERYTHING TO EVERYBODY ALL THE TIME, and her audacity at telling us that, in fact, we must turn the mainstream paradigm on its head: we must pursue our joy like our lives depended on it – because it does.
- Lenora
What Mara helped me do in Tend was take all those things I had been working on and go DEEP, to root down and build a big, solid foundation for my bespoke self-care, not just dabble in the top soil. She personally understood so many of the barriers that were keeping me exploring on the surface.
- Gillian
Put me on the list.
When you join the waitlist, I'll dance into your inbox with a top-secret podcast called (Re)Acquaint, loaded up with six snackable 11-minute episodes to guide you in reconnecting with yourself, your body, and your needs, right this second.
(Re)Acquaint will help you start tending to your needs. Finally.
(You'll also get my weekly letter and can unsubscribe any time.)