You are not a problem to be solved. You are a human to be cherished.
Yes, really.
Yes, you.
I know that might seem impossible. You’ve spent so long with your nose pressed up against the glass, feeling somehow too much and not enough all at once, working so hard to earn the deep, abiding peace and radiant aliveness others seem to embody with such ease.
You’re in the right place.
The awful/amazing truth is, you've run out the clock on the way you've been doing things.
Believe me, I get how disruptive that is. Around here we're a bunch of oldest sisters/anxiously attached/hypervigilant/masked neurodivergent/good students. We are exceptional at getting things done and caring for others. And when you stop being able to do that, it feels like a massive betrayal. I feel you. And, I can tell you with absolute certainty that you're not being betrayed. You're cracking open a whole new world of possibility.
It's time for a change – for yourself, for your loved ones, for all of us.
Until you develop the skills, capacity, and self-knowledge needed to put yourself smack dab in the middle of your own life, you're inherently limited in your relationship with yourself, your loves, your work, and your world. This work is not easy – if you want the heights, you gotta go into the depths – but I'm firmly holding onto a bigger vision of what your life could be.
The truth is, we need you. All of you. Messy, alive, human.
This is the work of our moment. We're going to need each other more than ever in the coming days, but you simply can't be in community effectively if you don't know, like, and trust yourself. And, until you're well-acquainted with what's going on inside of you, you have no business bringing that to the community.
The work is yours to do – but you never, ever have to do it alone.
It's my joy to walk this path beside you. There's no wrong place to start, this is a circular process you'll be doing for the rest of your life.
That being said, some offerings are better suited for specific seasons. Tune into what's calling to you right now.*
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*A note on hesitation:
You're the only one who knows whether you're feeling an urge to pause because you're scared, or because you legitimately need a break, or for any other reason. But if 49% of you is scared, and 51% of you knows this is for you, lean in. You don't have to earn the right to do this. You don't have to wait until everything else is done. You are not the fine china we only bring out when company's over, or the dessert you let yourself taste only after you've cleared your plate. Simply wanting to do this is enough of a reason to start.
xx Mara