When I work with women who have spend much of their life and money fixing themselves, I always feel it immediately in their energy. In moments I can almost slip it back on, because it was a feeling that I wore for so much of my life. It is the frantic, hopeful wanting – wanting … Read more
There are many days when I ask myself why I am doing what I am doing. Days when I want to give up. Days when I want to launch face first into a box of cupcakes. Days when I want to cry and beg someone else to fix it for me, pay for it for … Read more
Often when women come to work with me they are hungry for connection, for community. In our first session together, they describe a common feeling and fear :: I want to belong. I want to find my people. I want to know myself better. I want to feel safe to be who I really am. I … Read more
Make dinner. Pay the bills. Achieve the thing. Get the guy. Lose the last ten pounds. Pick up the kids. Take care of a friend. Do that one millionth thing that you said yes to – even when you desperately wanted to say no. Get the degree. Start the business. Figure it out. Show up. … Read more
The quiet truth: I’m a lot to handle. I’m smart. I’m loud. I’m beautiful. I’m curvy. I’m wildly ambitious. I love like it’s my full-time job, which, it sort of is. I am a lot to handle. I don’t hold back. I thrive in melodrama. I have a thing about other people living up to their potential. … Read more