Needy 130: Sharing the mental load with Laura Danger

So much responsibility is placed on caregivers, including the heaviness of carrying the mental load. But you don’t have to be resigned to the overwhelm of domestic labor, and your family can be full of equitable relationships. Today, I’m joined by Laura Danger for a long overdue conversation about the burden of being the default … Read more

Needy 129: How Neediness Can Support Sobriety with Laura McKowen

It can be tempting to lean solely on ourselves when we’re struggling and to hide what we’re going through from the world. But what if that’s the opposite of what we need? And connection is the medicine necessary for healing? Today, I’m joined by best-selling author Laura McKowen. Together we discuss how being honest about … Read more

Needy 127: Understanding & Questioning our Need for Safety with Jake Ernst

Understanding our needs, especially the need for safety, can be challenging. So in today’s episode, I am talking with Jake Ernst about the personal and social experiences of our needs, safety, and more. Jake is a therapist, writer, educator, and content creator. He’s the Clinical Director of Straight Up Health, a mental health clinic for … Read more